I hope you have ALL seen the magnificent Ms Aretha Franklin‘s performance of Carole King‘s hit (You Make Me Feel Like) A Natural Woman.
https://www.facebook.com/musicretrobest/videos/375040846533147/
The Kennedy Center Honors recognizing Ms King’s artistic achievements gave us an absolutely stunning performance, a collaboration of genius, these two women combining forces to create a profoundly inspiring moment. I am so deeply moved, watching this performance. Find it here, and find your own magnificent womanhood reflected!
Since this performance, I am moved to adopt the concept, A Natural Woman, as more appropriate, more accurate and more inspiring than the Uncommon Woman concept I have so far been using to embed my PCOS work. By Uncommon Woman I have meant to declare and defend our inherent uniqueness, that is, to defend against the diagnostic labels that cannot accurately or usefully describe us. A Natural Woman is a phrase and a concept that more positively and more accurately describes each and every one of us. Despite the limited thinking and un-natural categorization convenient to reductionist medical science, we are each a unique and natural -that is, normal -version of what adult human females can be. All humans have strengths and vulnerabilities; all humans have conditions that need attention and care for optimal well being. We are each somewhere on the continuum of what humans can be.
A few years ago I got to make a presentation of this concept to my colleagues at a continuing education conference. In a TED talk-like format, I was able to describe to the physician audience how we have mistaken ‘different’ for ‘abnormal’. We talked about anthropological, psychological and social science research that supports understanding high androgen women with PCOS as normal human females living in a deteriorating physical environment. I asked them to change how they see and subsequently how they interact with their patients who have been assigned a diagnosis of PCOS. How we see ourselves can be influenced by how others perceive us; we give professionals an enormous amount of power to define a collective version of what is normal. Professionals are human first. Their world-view colors their perceptions and decisions and affects the way they ask research questions, and how they interpret the data they collect. Care needs to be taken in assessing the value of data that may be unconsciously biased. We are always working to do a better job with what we spend our time doing, including being alert to our personal biases.
A really powerful part of this talk are the photos that high androgen women with PCOS have shared with me, along with permission to use their images and bits of their stories to illustrate the endlessly diverse array of appearances high androgen women walk around in. I project on a screen these gorgeous images, flowing by. (You Make Me Feel Like) A Natural Woman plays very quietly in the background. The audience become very curious, very interested in learning. It’s so inspiring, every time I get to share this.
Here’s the photo I use, of me and fabulous daughter Tassia, a couple of happy, healthy naturally high androgen women having a walk on a winter day.We’re looking forward to adding YOUR smiling face to the cast of extraordinary characters we are! Shine on, and share your natural light!

Many of you are enjoying the reliable benefits of inositol. Specifically, supplemental Myo-inositol has a proven track record for enhancing egg quality, normalizing ovulation, supporting weight management and inflammation by reducing insulin resistance and testosterone levels, as well as enhancing your heart health. Our knowledge of the benefits of D-chiro-inositol, on the other hand, is a bit more sketchy. Myo-inositol breaks down to D-chiro-inositol and in that form it has functions slightly different from its parent molecule. Some research suggests women with PCOS do not convert as much myo-inositol into D-chiro-inositol. It’s logical to wonder if adding D-chiro-inositol as a supplement will help. A series of research studies have been done looking at this combination. All are unfortunately flawed.
WHY HAVE A CONSULTATION?
Alrighty, so we know that high androgen women have a little tendency to anxiety and depression. Annoying but true. Now that I am older, and have had time to see what these experiences do and most importantly DON’T do in my life, I enjoy reworking these energies, taking the power and transforming it to something that serves me better. The Upward Spiral is a great book on the brain-chemistry of these experiences and how we can choose to extract ourselves from the sticky yuck and make something GOOD happen instead! No special equipment, no appointment needed! 
So many young women with PCOS struggle to become pregnant. Here are the basics for improving your chances of becoming pregnant and having a successful pregnancy. These suggestions are valuable when you are just starting to desire a pregnancy, and also when you have been at it a while and are considering using a form of medical technology to achieve pregnancy.
Men have the same challenges, and similar solutions, for increasing rates of infertility world-wide.
Our Weekly Wellness Guide has been focusing on the powerful choice of abandoning weight loss dieting in favor of mindful or ‘intuitive’ eating. When we can step back from the storm of negative messages about our appearance and the threatened loss of health, happiness and love, to find our own simple, quiet inner voice, our own self-knowing reliably moves us through life-giving change.
I frequently hear from women diagnosed with PCOS who are not over weight. The pervasive myth that PCOS means you are fat consternates all of us. Being “fat” is a dreaded condemnation. Many people can look in the mirror and see- if their self-concept is healthy- that they are objectively not over fat, and yet we frequently seek external validation from family and friends. When someone suffers a pronounced version of this distress it is called Body Dysmorphic Disorder or BDD. The following is borrowed from the Anxiety and Depression Association of America:
Hello dear UnCommon Women! This week I am sharing the story of Harnaan Kaur, a high-androgen woman who embraces her own unique beauty. I have been writing about the value of seeing the various advantages and strengths we enjoy as high androgen women, and we’ve acknowledged that most of the distress we feel has to do with the cosmetic effects of a high androgen system. There are few cultures that explicitly celebrate the beauty of a sexually mature woman with abundant body and facial hair. Harnaan Kaur has been choosing to maintain a public activism despite the predictable attempts by others to control her through shame and rejection. This young woman’s integrity, strength of character and courage are extraordinary. I hope you’ll join me in offering her applause and support:http://www.wittyfeed.com/…/This-Bride-With-Beard-Has-Change…
Hello Uncommon Woman. I want to talk about the uncommon strengths of high androgen women. Research into the genetic origins of our physiology describes how the significant benefits we enjoy as individuals also improves life for our families and communities. Every human society has always had a few women who have strong, lean bodies and a reliably longer lifespan. Part of that historical advantage came from having fewer babies, and having our children later in life.
Dear UnCommon Women ~ I am struggling to post today’s Weekly Wellness Guide. Discussing politics or religion is not my purpose here. But. In the face of yet another horrific mass slaying in an American church, of innocent people, beautiful, generative, contributing people, in their home of worship, I cannot pretend to be unaffected, or ignorant.
Hello UnCommon Woman~ Here’s your Weekly Wellness Guide!



Compassionate, Kind and Conscious Fat Management is key to being well for high-androgen women with PCOS.
You already know that diets don’t work for weight loss, right? We can lose, yep, but we almost always re-gain lost weight and usually with increasing amounts of fat and less muscle every time. Don’t despair! It’s OK! We can be rid of unhealthy amounts of body fat, life long. The way to do it, the ONLY way, is to start by eating only what you really love. And, nope, I am not crazy! I trust you- when you learn what works, you do it! Science proves it!
Green Tea is GOOD medicine!
You like that inexpensive, tastes good and potent natural medicine thing? I’m REALLY really excited about this one! Most of us understand that Vit D is key to human well being. 70% of North Americans are Vitamin D deficient! And, women with PCOS as a group have lower Vit D levels than average. Supplementing Vit D has clearly beneficial effects for us. It turns out that MUSHROOMS deliver hefty doses of Vit D! and drying them in the sun significantly increases the Vit D in your mushrooms, which is then stored, remaining potent for at least a year. It looks like the least expensive, most popular “button” mushrooms work as well as more expensive varieties like shitake and maitake.
Women with PCOS are no fatter than the rest of the population, and being fatter makes the living with PCOS experience worse.